I always hated the terms or ideas
of "victim," "suffering," from bipolar or any other mental
illness. I've always held the belief that if someone holds onto those
idealizations they make themselves weak. That they see themselves at the mercy
of what has a hold of them.
But until here recently I have
begun to see things differently. And it has all been as a result of my own life
and how it continues downhill. I still don't see myself as being weak or at the
mercy of my bipolar. However, witnessing it to continue to worsen and become
more unpredictable only leaves me to believe that more has to be done than what
already is before everything I have is gone.
Recent job loss, almost lost my
wife, another black out, another blow up fight, loss of friends, the suicidal
depression and mania. All of which occurs while fully compliant with my
medications.
I think one of the things that
hurts the most is when people know you are bipolar and they believe they are ok
with it until they actually see it in you. That's when they leave.
I have less than an hour then I
will check in at the psychiatric hospital in my town. It's definitely not the
first time I've been hospitalized. Not the first time voluntarily either. Think
this is my eighth time. Honestly, my hopes are not up because the only goal is
to become stable and then get out. It happens every time.
The problem is that my bipolar
continues to get worse. So I could get stable in two days, get out on the
third, and on the fifth be psychotic.
My actual goal: To get ECT, electroconvulsive
therapy. It's not done here in my town. Just a larger city a couple of hours
away. I know it's not a miracle. Nor magic. Or even a cure. I hear wonders about
it. And I'm tired. Tired of fighting every day.
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